| She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman |  | Author: Ian Kerner
Publisher: Harper Paperbacks
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"When it comes to pleasuring women and conversing in the language of love, cunnilingus should be every man's native tongue," writes clinical sexologist Ian Kerner, Ph.D. in She Comes First, a straightforward, intimate, and exuberant guide to cunnilingus. Kerner first explored "the oral caress" as a way of compensating for his "sexual inadequacies," and quickly learned that women not only welcomed but often preferred "the way of the tongue," reaching orgasm more consistently than through intercourse. Kerner educates readers about the clitoris, "the powerhouse of pleasure," with 18 parts and 8,000 nerve endings (twice as many as the penis) and describes female sexual response from "foreplay" through "coreplay" to "moreplay." A large part of the book is a graphic, detailed primer on "mouth music," including best positions, step-by-step techniques (illustrated), and tips for tongue and fingers. How long should this last? Until the woman has an orgasm or many, says Kerner, and "melts blissfully before your eyes." "The vast majority of women complain about guys who don't like to do it, don't know how to do it, or simply don't do it nearly enough," writes Kerner. This book will change that. Women: Buy it for your partner! --Joan Price
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As women everywhere will attest, men are "ill-cliterate." Most guys know more about what's under the hood of a car than under the hood of a clitoris. But in the world of She Comes First, the mystery of female satisfaction is solved and the tongue is proven mightier than the sword. According to sex therapist (and evangelist of the female orgasm) Ian Kerner, oral sex isn't just foreplay, it's coreplay: simply the best way to lead a woman through the entire process of arousal time and time again. Can you say "viva la vulva"? Fun and informative, She Comes First is a virtual encyclopedia of female pleasure, detailing dozens of tried-and-true techniques for consistently satisfying a woman and ensuring that sexual fulfillment is mutual.
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 Absolutely one of the best books on the subject June 26, 2009
C. Crawley
54 out of 57 found this review helpful
This book is one of the most extraordinary guidebooks in how to please a woman that I've ever read. It goes in depth and while very detailed does not get too technical. It's also very easy to understand and is very practical in the explanations. It's also very entertaining and most importantly, it works! This should be required reading for any man who wants to be better in the bedroom. Another really good book I read on this subject is Sex, Your Woman and You: How to Sexually Please Your Woman in the Bedroom and Beyond. It also has some really good information in it. Both of these books are extraordinarily helpful for any man out there who wants to become more skillful in this area.
'The tongue is mightier than the sword' September 27, 2004
girldiver (tangled up in blue.)
263 out of 309 found this review helpful
I have a curious mind and always have, so when I came across yet another book about cunnilingus I could not resist. I was especially intrigued when I saw the author was male. `She Comes First' is without a shadow of doubt the best book on the subject today.
I especially loved how he organized his book after Strunk and White's `Elements of Style' so the book is easy to read, easy to follow, and exceptionally helpful in the elements of sexual style and usage. The chapters are short and sweet so if you are in a time crunch you certainly can devour a short chapter at any session.
I cannot exclaim enough how comprehensive this book is on the sexual response of women. The author spends a great deal of time explaining the importance of building sexual tension to bring about pleasure and actually gives step by step instructions to do so.
From the beginner to the experienced enthusiast, there is something in this book for everybody. I was pleasantly surprised by the routines for beginner, intermediate, and advanced sessions. Also the step-by-step guides are an eye opener.
Impeccably written, this book was a joy to read!
girldiver:)
Wow! She Does Come First! July 7, 2008
Jan-Mar (TEXAS)
22 out of 23 found this review helpful
My partner is the original John Wayne - to the core. And for him to read a "how to" book on anything just isn't going to happen. Well, he doesn't have a lot of experience in the art of pleasing a woman...you know, cowboys just get on and ride! Well, somehow, he heard about this book and has it ever made a difference. A difference in everything - our level of intimacy, our happiness, everything we do...we are now closer than ever before...and we're both in our 60's!
He first tried some of the techniques without telling me about the book. Well, it was wonderfully obvious to me that something had changed and for the better.
This past weekend, we sat together in bed and he showed me the book and we read exerpts that he had marked together. How wonderful is that! We've laughed and played and we have loved...and after all these years, I am now coming first - and for the first time! How glorious is that!
Thank you, Dr.Kerner!She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman
Helped My Boyfriend (Now Husband) Become Better in Bed January 10, 2006
Linda Stevens
28 out of 31 found this review helpful
A few months ago I bought this book for my husband along with the amzazing "How to Be Her Best Lover Ever" by John Alexander.
My boyfriend at the time (now my husband) learned an immense amount from both books which are really a great complement to each other.
She Comes First is mostly a guide to cunnilingus. My husband doesn't have a lot of patience for long books, and Kerner's book is mercifully consise and easy to read.
As a woman, I'm a believer that males are actually the best sources of advice for guys on how to be great in bed (with the top two without a doubt being Kerner and Alexander). The reason, I think, is because they're able to analyze more dispassionately without the problem of their personal biases interfering.
Kerner explains thoroughly what gives a woman pleasure. What's important is to slowly build up a woman's arousal. A man should tease and tease again. Build the woman up to a point where she's BEGGING her man to give her release!
Guys, this book will show you how women are DIFFERENT from you. If you want your woman to have pleasure (which means YOU get pleasure too!), you need to learn how your woman's genitalia operate. Learn everything about your woman's anatomy and where her erogenous zones are; it's the most rewarding education you can have!
Even if you're a sexual virtuoso already, I believe you can still learn from She Comes First. But at the same time, there are detailed guides for even men who are very beginners when it comes to sex.
Get this book. You won't regret it.
Look Pa, I got the golden ticket!!! May 25, 2004
T. Knowles (Los Angeles)
23 out of 25 found this review helpful
Yes, I feel like Charlie in Willie Wonka. Finally someone has given us the golden ticket!!! Mr. Kerner's book is something that many of us have always wanted but could never ask for. He has invited us into a magical place where we can anonymously learn answers to the many questions we have had. I especially like his quote about men knowing more about what goes on under the hood of a car than under the hood of a clitoris. Of course we do! There are books/manuals that tell us how to change the oil, replace the freon, etc. - or our fathers showed us what to do. Well, my father told me about the "Birds and the Bees" but when it came to sex that didn't do me much more good than learning how to fill the windshield wiper fluid! But now that has changed!!! Mr. Kerner has given those of us that have always wanted to become "oral masters" a definitive guide to help us towards our goal. I highly recommend that everyone read this. Both men and women. I guarantee that everyone will learn from it. One example....do you know how many "parts" provide stimulation to the clitoris? If you guessed 18, you are the first person to do so correctly that I have asked...and since reading the book, I've asked many(it is a great conversation piece). Mr. Kerner will help you understand how to use the knowledge he teaches and apply it - this is the best homework assignment you will ever receive! And think of how good it will be for your "lab" partner! An amazing book...thank you Mr. Kerner for giving your tongue a break and putting this all down on paper!!! You are the wise monk to my sexual grasshopper!!!
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